The Same Fight Different Tuesday

The Same Fight Different Tuesday: Breaking Your Brain's Relationship Groundhog Day

Ever wonder why you can run a business, solve complex problems, and remember every single lyrics to songs from the 90s, but you still can't figure out why your partner gets sulky when you ask, “What's wrong?” and they say “Nothing” in that particular tone?

Welcome to the club. Population: everyone.

Your brain is still using the relationship rulebook it wrote when you were six years old and thought the height of sophisticated conflict resolution was hiding under the dining room table. Which explains why you keep having the same arguments, attracting the same types of people, and wondering why everyone else seems to have cracked some secret code for having a good relationship with humans.

This book isn't going to tell you to love yourself first or manifest your soulmate. It's going to explain why your perfectly intelligent brain turns into a paranoid conspiracy theorist every time someone takes three hours to reply to your text, and what you can actually do about it.

You'll learn why some people need constant reassurance whilst others treat emotions like a communicable disease, how to have difficult conversations without anyone storming off, and why setting boundaries doesn't make you a terrible person (despite what your guilt complex keeps telling you).

Written by someone who's figured out how brains work the hard way, through single motherhood, dating disasters, and trying to communicate with a teenager who think she's ancient and not cool at all.

Because honestly, life's too short to keep having the same fight every Tuesday. Your relationships don't have to be this hard. You don't have to keep wondering what everyone else knows that you don't. And you definitely don't have to spend another evening analysing whether that emoji was passive-aggressive or genuinely friendly.