Six Feet Over: How Dead People Date is the resurrection that followed the burial in Love Is Dead. If that book helped you confront the counterfeit—this one shows you how to live in what’s real. Where Love Is Dead helped you put to rest toxic patterns, soul ties, and the broken theology around love, Six Feet Over picks up the shovel and starts building something holy from the ruins.

This isn’t a cute sequel. This is your survival guide for dating after deliverance.

Dr. Motiv8 doesn’t offer relationship hacks or surface-level affirmations. He offers a deeper call: to date from resurrection, not desperation. To choose with discernment, not dysfunction. To finally live and love as someone who has been made whole.

This book was born from the sacred tension between grief and growth—what happens when you’ve buried the old version of you, but still don’t know how to live as the new one. It’s what comes after the funeral, when the people around you expect you to “move on,” but you know you’re still learning how to breathe again. You’re not under anymore. You’re six feet over. Above the drama. Above the confusion. Above the patterns that used to call your name.

Each chapter is a soul excavation—pulling up the roots of trauma, exposing the lies, and showing you how to build a love life aligned with Heaven, not history. You won’t just read about red flags—you’ll learn how to honor green ones. You won’t just talk boundaries—you’ll walk in them. And you won’t just wait for God’s best—you’ll become someone who knows how to carry it when it arrives.

This book is for the healed. The healing. And the ones who finally said, “I’m done bleeding over what God already buried.”

Because Love Is Dead was your wake-up call.

But Six Feet Over is your resurrected walk.

You didn’t just let go of what hurt you. You’re learning how to hold what’s holy.

Welcome to the real journey. Let’s walk it out—higher.

Motiv8

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