Were you raised by a parent whose moods controlled the room? Did love always come with fear, confusion, or guilt?

You’re not imagining it — and you’re not alone. Growing up with a mother who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder often means living in a home where emotions explode, boundaries shift daily, and your own needs are quietly erased. Even as an adult, that damage lingers — in your relationships, self-worth, and voice.

And yet, there is a way forward.

Whether your mother was diagnosed or you’re only now recognizing the patterns, this is the honest, compassionate, and empowering conversation you’ve been waiting to hear.

You’ll get answers. You’ll feel seen. And — most importantly — you’ll learn what to do next.

🎧 Inside, you'll discover how to:

Recognize the most common signs of Borderline Personality Disorder — and how they affect parenting
Understand how BPD differs from Narcissistic Personality Disorder — and why it matters
Spot the early emotional wounds of growing up with a borderline or narcissistic parent
Identify how emotional neglect shapes adult identity, anxiety, and relationships
Stop the cycle of guilt, self-blame, and toxic loyalty
Learn why people-pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional shutdown might not be your fault
Set firm boundaries without drowning in guilt
Say “no” without explanation — and feel good about it
Build trust, confidence, and a strong, independent sense of self
Reclaim your future without abandoning your past

You don’t have to keep shrinking yourself to fit someone else's broken lens of love. You get to define who you are — and this audiobook shows you exactly how to begin.

Virginia Gilbert

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