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Susan Cain

  • Ganahas quoted2 years ago
    The earlier guides emphasized attributes that anyone could work on improving, described by words like

    Citizenship
    Duty
    Work
    Golden deeds
    Honor
    Reputation
    Morals
    Manners
    Integrity

    But the new guides celebrated qualities that were—no matter how easy Dale Carnegie made it sound—trickier to acquire. Either you embodied these qualities or you didn’t:

    Magnetic
    Fascinating
    Stunning
    Attractive
    Glowing
    Dominant
    Forceful
    Energetic

    It was no coincidence that in the 1920s and the 1930s, Americans became obsessed with movie stars. Who better than a matinee idol to model personal magnetism?
  • Ganahas quoted2 years ago
    “ALL AROUND YOU PEOPLE ARE JUDGING YOU SILENTLY,”
  • Ganahas quoted2 years ago
    The IC, as it became known in the popular press, was developed in the 1920s by a Viennese psychologist named Alfred Adler to describe feelings of inadequacy and their consequences.
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    Subject to the limitations of memory, all other stories are recounted as they happened or were told to me. I did not fact-check the stories people told me about themselves
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    There comes a time when people get tired of being pushed out of the glittering sunlight of life’s July and left standing amidst the piercing chill of an Alpine November.
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    glory of the disposition that stops to consider stimuli rather than rushing to engage with them is its long association with intellectual and artistic achievement. Neither E=mc2 nor Paradise Lost was dashed off by a party animal.
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    at school you might have been prodded to come “out of your shell”—that noxious expression which fails to appreciate that some animals naturally carry shelter everywhere they go, and that some humans are just the same
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    there is no all-purpose definition of introversion or extroversion; these are not unitary categories, like “curly-haired” or “sixteen-year-old,” in which everyone can agree on who qualifies for inclusion.
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    The word introvert is not a synonym for hermit or misanthrope. Introverts can be these things, but most are perfectly friendly.
  • b8927378645has quoted2 years ago
    There is no such thing as a pure extrovert or a pure introvert. Such a man would be in the lunatic asylum.
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