Models – A Comprehensive Guide to Attracting Women

In the past three years I’ve had women thank me for having a one night stand with them; women tell me that our week together meant more to them than their entire four-year relationship with their exboyfriend; women ask me to take their virginity because I was the first guy they had ever met who they trusted enough to do it. I have beautiful women from all over the world that I keep in touch with years later and share wonderful memories with -- some of whom I spent less than 48 hours with.
Vulnerability is the path of true human connection and becoming a truly attractive person. As Psychologist Robert Glover says: "Humans are attracted to each other’s rough edges." Show your rough edges. Stop trying to be perfect. Expose yourself and share yourself without inhibition. Take the rejections and lumps and move on because you’re a bigger and stronger man. And when you find a woman who loves who you are (and you will), revel in her affection.
But opening oneself up to vulnerability, training oneself to become comfortable with your emotions, with your faults, and with expressing oneself without inhibitions doesn’t happen overnight. This entire book is kind of a how-to guide for vulnerability disguised as a seduction manual. But it’s a process, and at times is a grueling one.

A rich man doesn’t need to tell people he’s rich. A confident man doesn’t need to tell people he’s confident. And a guy who "doesn’t give a fuck" doesn’t need to go around telling people he "doesn’t give a fuck."

Vulnerability short-circuits the paradox. A man comfortable being vulnerable will not behave in a needy way. And when desire is shown without neediness, it is attractive. When desire is shown with neediness, it is unattractive.

Think about it this way. Tom approaches Sally. Prior to talking to her, Tom hovers over her shoulder for a good 30 seconds. He’s a little drunk. Once he works up the nerve, he leans in, and has a big grin showing both excitement and nervousness. He asks for her name and sticks out his hand. His voice wavers a bit as he tells her how pretty she is. She’s flattered but a little uncomfortable. She says, "Thanks." He holds her hand a little too long and stares at her and says, "No, really, just so, so pretty …" It’s getting a little awkward now. Sally kind of wants her hand back. Tom is looking around now and seems to be scrambling mentally to think of something else to say. He finally comes out with a weak, "Where are you from?" Sally’s now completely uncomfortable and finds an excuse to leave.

An hour later, Bill approaches Sally. Bill is well dressed and seems to be in control of all of his actions. When he approaches Sally he walks directly to her and unapologetically stands directly in front of her. She looks up at him as he sticks out his hand. He says, "Hi, my name is Bill, I thought you were very beautiful and wanted to say hi." His handshake is as firm as his voice. His slight smile shows confidence -- confidence that even if she told him to fuck off, Bill probably wouldn’t really care. Sally gives a meek "Thank you" and blushes. Bill then sidles up next to her putting his arm halfway around her and begins to tell her a story of something that happened earlier in the night. He doesn’t ask if she wants to hear a story. He doesn’t wait for her to ask him something. He just starts talking, as if what he has to say is the most important thing in the world. And again, if she didn’t want to hear it, Bill would probably just go find another girl to tell his story to. And that’s fine.